February 13th, 2009



  • 08:34 Let's hear it for unseasonable warmth! Turning on the fan in February seems wrong, though. #
  • 08:35 The newest member of @thepipettes is named Beth. Nice name. {g} #
  • 08:41 @huggythuggy Who would have thought a good little girl like you could destroy my beautiful wickedness? #
  • 08:44 @3x1minus1 I don't get so many of those on Facebook, but I've been getting a fair number on Twitter. Most of them appear to be ads. #
  • 08:44 I'm now Facebook friends with Frank Black and his wife. #
  • 08:44 @3x1minus1 You're marginally famous, I suppose. #
  • 15:17 Today, I watched the "Inkheart" movie, and bought the third issue of Marvel's Wizard of Oz comic. #
  • 15:18 @pshumate I've been using Robo and Lucca. If it's easier with Marle, I might try switching them around. #
  • 15:20 @twobitme People like her make me think the Chinese government might be on to something with that one-kid rule. #
  • 15:22 @miscellaneaarts Maybe it would increase productivity if offices provided kittens to hug. #
  • 19:59 tinyurl.com/cp49fj Pac-Man ghost lamps (link from @twobitme) #
  • 23:02 @3x1minus1 How did you "bash" Sloan, anyway? #
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I'm thinking 'bout Cupid, 'cause I'm feeling so bad

Okay, I'm not really feeling that bad, but I HAVE been thinking of Cupid, thanks to the much-despised holiday that takes place tomorrow. The idea of Valentine's Day is pretty annoying, but it has some interesting mythology I can associate with it. And since I'm going to be busy tomorrow (not doing Valentine-related things, but rather working and attending a Rufus Wainwright concert), I might as well cover it today. This discussion, like ancient Gaul, will be divided into three parts:

1. Lupercalia

This was a Roman fertility festival that was already ancient by the time of the Empire, and continued on for some time after the Empire had been Christianized. I believe it wasn't until the late fifth century that it was officially abolished, although it had changed considerably from its original form by then. Shakespeare's Julius Caesar begins on the Lupercalia. I don't believe any official connection with Valentine's Day has been found, but the fact that it was celebrated at the same time of the year (actually the thirteenth through the fifteenth, according to Wikipedia) makes for an interesting coincidence, if nothing else.

2. St. Valentine

There were apparently several early Christian martyrs named Valentinus, and all that's really known about this particular one is that he died on the fourteenth of February. Legends have grown up about how he performed Christian marriages at a time when this was illegal, but I don't believe there's any actual confirmation of this, and it might have been invented to fit with the later association of St. Valentine with lovers. This connection apparently wasn't established until the fourteenth or fifteenth century, and Valentine isn't on the Catholic Church's official list of saints.

3. Cupid

Cupid becoming a part of Valentine's Day also seems to be a relatively modern idea. The god associated with the Lupercalia was not Cupid, but Lupercus, often identified with the Greek Pan. If that association had kept up, it certainly would have resulted in quite different cards.

But the association of the day with lovers means that the current mythological symbol is the god of love. Cupid (or Eros in Greek) is an interesting figure, described by Hesiod as being one of the first gods to emerge from the primordial Chaos, but later retconned to be the son of Aphrodite. Mind you, his possible mother had different origins of her own, sometimes said to have been born when Ouranos' testicles were cast into the sea, and other times to be the daughter of Zeus and Dione. I think they might need some paternity tests up in Olympus. ("Castrated testicles of the primordial sky god, you are NOT the father.") Anyway, the classical portrayal of Cupid seems to have been as a naked boy:

More recent conceptions often give him a diaper or a toga, and make him look even younger, hence presumably unable to participate in any of the love he's always forcing upon others. One of the most famous stories about him, however, is that of his marriage to Psyche, presumably meaning that some myth-makers thought of him as somewhat older.